If early retirement is your goal, it’s easy to get caught up in the anticipation of escaping a dreaded day job.
Still, with an eye on both the present and future, there’s nothing wrong with daydreaming about your first day of retirement.
Before setting an early retirement goal for myself, I hadn’t put much thought into what I’d do with my freedom at the “normal” retirement age of 60-something.
I suppose there were random visions of doting on grandkids and tending a garden or traveling overseas. There wasn’t any thought put into the hour-by-hour day in the life of Cubert, the retiree…
A recent research study suggested that the most enjoyment we get from travel occurs during the lead-up to the trip, not the trip itself. That “anticipation window” is what powers a boost in happiness or contentment.
Now, based on that notion, I’m left wondering if the same is true of early retirement.
We all know we ought to slow down and appreciate the little things in life, no matter what our journey happens to be. But it’s hard to smell the roses when your nose is stuck in a cell phone or computer screen all day (fully warranted self-indictment!)
Even before we start to think about and shape a post-retirement life, we need to take stock of the present. We need to put energy into the relationships and joys of today.
I suppose it’s natural as we age, to reverse our earlier longings for time to pass to reach some way-out-there-goal. As a kid, I couldn’t wait for my birthday, for Christmas, and for school to be out for summer.
In college, I enjoyed my time away from home, the new friends, all-you-can-eat dorm food, and mid-day naps (among other things). And still, I kept looking ahead to graduation and taking on a profession I knew little about.
As I approached middle age, I started wanting time to slow down. The time train is moving a bit too fast now, and these achy 40-something knees are annoying on 5k runs!
Knowing that I need to keep my anticipation in check, and appreciate life in the present, I can afford to look ahead and shape my first day of early retirement.
My Daily Schedule in Early Retirement, Take 1
5:00 AM: Wake-up time (Yawwwwn.) Man, it’s sure nice to get up and not have to deal with office politics today. Now back to that dream where I retired early and…
6:45 AM: Let’s get some coffee and breakfast going. While I’m at it, I’ll check in with the twins to see if they’re up and around, getting ready for another day of first grade.
7:30 AM: By this age, the twins should be pretty self-sufficient in getting their breakfast going. But I’ll probably help pack lunches. That’s right, lunch-lady, a brown bag only for these two!
8:00 AM: Walk the kids to school. Can’t beat a nice little five-block scamper to campus. Thank you, city neighborhood!
8:15 AM: Back home. What now???
8:15 AM: I know, I know, I had this figured out back in 2016 while writing some blog posts about what I’m supposed to be doing. I know it doesn’t involve going back to bed or knitting. I got it, I’m volunteering!*
*Alternative day-time activities will include, when not volunteering: Working on our rental properties (maintenance and improvements), working on this blog, and working on our house projects. Sneak in a run, maybe some kettlebell action at the gym, or a rare, cheap lunch (or coffee) with a former co-worker.
8:20 AM: I’m off to a Habitat For Humanity work site. I’ll spend the better part of a regular working day here, putting up siding, painting, caulking, or whatever tasks my experience in houses will safely allow. Hard hats are not optional.
9:30 AM: While nailing in another piece of siding, I start to wonder whether I’d rather be back in my cubicle, safe from the outside elements, safe from heights, and safe from the pneumatic nail-gun that the job-site foreman is now letting me use without supervision.
9:31 AM: No longer wondering. I’m glad I’m doing siding.
10:30 AM: Nail-gun nearly takes out the left thumb. Still not daydreaming about the old cube…
2:30 PM: The ice cream truck pulls up. I’ve easily spent 2,000 calories with all this macho construction work by now! Okay, maybe once a week I’ll indulge. Sugar kills, so I take it in small doses. Most times.
4:30 PM: The workday is over (maybe an hour earlier, depending on how early school gets out.) A lot of good, tangible work was done that will contribute to a safe and sound dwelling for a family in need. I will repeat this work day two or three times a week, especially in the warmer, construction-friendly months.
5:00 PM: Start getting ready for family dinner. I get to be a chef! Now granted, I have impressive skills when it comes to combining random foods into a more or less edible dish. But now I’ll have time to get even crazier with that “everything and the kitchen sink risotto!”
5:30 PM: The Brussel sprout and bacon pizzas are ready to serve! I pop open a craft beer or pour myself a small glass of boxed wine. The kids get milk. Whole milk.
7:00 PM: Help the kids with any homework they might have. Confession: I detest homework. I still think it’s stupid. Families these days don’t get enough time to bond, and then you throw in homework?
I did maybe half of mine when I was in grade school. If I had to go back and do it all over, I STILL wouldn’t do all my homework. Nevertheless, I’ll gladly help the twins with theirs, and call it bonding time with Pops! Plus, scholarships are nice, right?
8:00 PM: Kids in bed. Whew.
9:30 PM: Lights-out.
1st Day of Retirement Expectations
I mean, we get all keyed up about retirement fun, and ultimately, we’re still obligated to fill 16 waking hours of our day.
On my first day of retirement, I will be:
- outside, not stuck inside when beautiful weather strikes
- active, not glued to a desk chair
- free from office politics and able to focus on producing, not drama
- spending more time with my family
- happily becoming a less-stressed version of myself than the cubicle-bound imposter
- contributing skills and labor in a more direct, tangible manner, to a meaningful cause (Habitat for Humanity)
This particular day in life is just one example of what tomorrow might hold for us. During summer breaks for the twins, I would expect a mix of outdoor activities, biking, and family travel to be had.
But I also expect the kids to join in on chores, house projects, and some light rental work, to build a good work ethic and money smarts.
First thing is first: No. I haven’t retired yet. But I do spend a lot of time daydreaming about Day 1. What does my daily routine in retirement look like?
Will I be bored off my rocker, or will I have enough work on my plate to keep me both occupied and productive? Today’s topic covers one of the most crucial retirement coping strategies: creating a daily routine.
In fairness, the money part still looms as a big dragon over my early retirement schemes. I still need to “pad things” a bit, and get to the point where I’m not worried about missing out on life, just because I’m not pulling a big salary anymore. Dang Disney Cruise!
Once the money part is solved, there’s the “what now?” factor. This is today’s problem to ponder. What tasks and projects will help me grow, learn, and produce something of value, while collaborating with good people in the process?
See what I did there? I just described nearly everyone’s dream job…
Of course, very few of us get to experience that dream. There are moments, to be sure. We land a good boss for a few years, and when the stars align, we get to work with wonderful colleagues on challenging, but manageable projects.
More often than not, sadly, we can’t pick our boss, our colleagues, or our projects. We can influence and adapt, sure, but it’s a stressful grind.
Benjamin Franklin’s Schedule: A Blueprint for My Routine?
Benjamin Franklin is often touted as the OG early retiree. He side-hustled through most of his famed, long-lived life. Although never a president, he adorns the hundred-dollar bill.
Not too shabby! And of all the founding fathers, he’s probably the least sourpuss of the bunch. The man knew how to live life to the fullest.
Part of what gave Franklin the juice to live such a full life was his schedule. It all starts with waking up early every day. 5 AM early. I love this old post.
My wife started her own 5 AM habit well before I stumbled across Franklin, so I had a little more motivation to give it a shot. And thanks to the inspiration, this blog lives on.
Because honestly, if it weren’t for the 5 AM wake-up call, I would have ZERO time to write. My job doesn’t allow for pretend work time, friends (and neither should yours!) I struggled at first with balancing the excitement of the productivity gains before daybreak with just plain winding down at night.
I made the mistake of watching stupid TV shows right before bedtime — giving myself nightmarish imagery from Game of Thrones when all I wanted to do was catch Z’s.
Franklin didn’t have to worry about that nonsense. Not only did he avoid watching GoT (thanks to slow internet speeds), but he also benefited from a candle-lit environment.
And when it got too hot in Philly, he bolted for parts north to cool off, like the rest of the gentry did back then. (It was more out of necessity since malaria and yellow fever were common summer companions. Yikes…)
First World Early Retirement Problems
I consider the 9:30 AM to 3:30 PM time frame as the “Golden Window of Opportunity”. This is where I’ve had such a migraine about pulling the trigger on early retirement. I have no problem filling this time frame in my cubicle job – there are emails to read and meetings to attend. On weekends, there’s laundry to do and blogging to catch up on.
Absent a paycheck though? How about focusing on this crusty old blog?? Maybe writing a blog is a passion project I can turn into something really useful. I chomp at the bit to think how much better the quality around here would be if I had three hours a day to crunch away on Abandoned Cubicle. The possibilities are marginal, at least…
Let’s poke at the 12:30 PM to 3:30 PM slot in the Golden Window. This is where I could choose to help out in my local community, fix up our own house, or work on beefing up the rentals (assuming the tenants don’t mind…) I have thought about spinning up a property management business, and possibly getting a realtor’s license.
But this sub-slot is a time window I need to nail down. If I don’t have something steady going on here, I could easily lapse into daily naps and read interesting books I never have time for. I could venture into oil painting, like George W. Bush or Sylvester Stallone (a few of the contemporary greats).
The curse of too much time isn’t as much of a problem when you’ve got golf leagues, world travel, bridge club, and grandkids to watch. Sure, there are countless traditional retirees still bored as hell, and often health issues can be a root cause, or, a consequence.
For early retirees, this is the curse of all curses. If I retired at age 30 without a clue how to wield a hammer, write a blog post, or ride a bike, what the heck would I do with all that free time? Kids eventually go off to school. You blink and all of a sudden you’ve gone from changing diapers to walking junior to his first day of Kindergarten.
The risk is that we put all this energy into saving money, building our retirement stash, cutting the cord, and trimming the bills. And then, we retire early into a blank slate of “Well, what now??” If you’re not destined to become a rock star blogger traveling from expo to expo, camp to camp, or publisher to publisher, watcha gonna do with all that free time, mate?
What does your daily schedule in early retirement look like? Please share in the comments below!
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Roy Largo @ Band of Savers says
Good job setting goals. I am also a firm believer in the principle of setting goals and writing them down, otherwise they are just dreams that will never come true. Sometimes I think that I spend too much time thinking about early retirement and what it will be like that I fear that I’m not enjoying the present as much as I should be. While life will never be perfect I have to often remind myself that there are parts of my life right now that I need to be more present for because I’m going to miss them later on. And the more practice I have in being able to slow down and enjoy the moment, the better prepared I’ll be to enjoy my early retirement.
abandoned cubicle says
Thanks, Roy! Same problem here- often daydreaming about early retirement. You do need to enjoy and be present for the present! I’d be interested to hear what tactics you’ve found helpful in this.
Good luck on your FIRE journey! Great to see another tech guy getting out of the cubicle. Your plan sounds good. The day is revolved around volunteering and your kids. That’s a lot more rewarding than stressing out in a cubicle. My kid just started kindergarten and there are a ton of volunteering opportunities. I’ll start volunteering next quarter. This quarter is a bit busy with traveling and adjusting to kindergarten.
abandoned cubicle says
Thanks, Joe! I know it sounds like a good plan but like you, I expect the kids will be the main event for a few years at least. I think your blog is fantastic – thanks for paving the way!
Mr Defined Sight says
Just stumbled onto your blog and I have enjoyed your posts! I’m a fellow IT guy from the upper Midwest also. My first day of retirement (if summer) would include Golf, a workout, meals with my family, and hopefully some time to do some blogging/reading. Oh and I forgot some adult beverages, but that would probably happen while golfing 🙂 I am quite positive that I would do some constructive activities like volunteering at an animal shelter. My wife and I have soft spots for animals, dogs specifically.
Will be checking back often!
abandoned cubicle says
I’m glad you stumbled over, Mr. Sight! I like the sound of your first day of retirement. I used to golf quite a bit myself. Adult beverages? Sign me up! That’s the beauty of the thing- options are endless.
Viv Armatage says
Ok so we’ve missed the 40 something mark – well my other half has. Our goal now is in 2 -3 years time when for the husband is 59. I’m a stay at home mum. We could do it now but there’s one small catch – 1 kid that will still have 2 years to go at high school and one kid at university. Also we have slightly higher goals than Jo Average in that we want to travel. We’ve already got the freehold retirement house – a 7 acre life style block 45 minutes out of the city. But we will need a lock up and leave in suburbia as a base for the kids. This will eventually become another investment property to help boost our retirement income. So what our retirement will look like. Probably 4 days a week playing farmers on our lifestyle block and 3 days a week playing early retired suburbanites – you know the ones – when you’re battling the rush hour traffic to the city you pass them hand in hand taking a leisurely early morning walk to pick up the paper, read it over a flat white at the local café, followed by a romantic walk on the beach. Yes would like to think there’s a bit of romance left in the old retired couple yet. On the lifestyle block things will be busy, tending the huge vege garden and maintaining the orchard. The husband can potter away doing all the art projects he’s longed to do all his working life, volunteer work sharing our knowledge and labour with the local native bush regeneration crew in our area and other forest preservation projects.
abandoned cubicle says
Oh wow, that almost sounds idyllic! I could imagine a little farming as good for the soul. We have a record growing season going on in MN, so maybe it’s worth a look.. agree on travel too. We love to visit the national parks and have friends living overseas. Anyways, Viv, you’ve got some great plans in the works. Best to you both!