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Rediscovering the Joys of Being a Homebody

March 25, 2020 by Cubert

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Restrictions, curfews, and isolation are fast becoming a normal part of life since the COVID-19 outbreak took root here in the U.S. A little over one week has passed since social-distancing was introduced and several public gathering venues closed. Even for those of us who don’t mind a little down-time being a homebody, the lack of choice can be a cause for anxiety.

I had a few moments of “Oh shit. We’ll be stuck at home FOREVER!!” this past weekend. Deep breathes help. Knowing that everyone else in the neighborhood faced the same restrictions was comforting. Sure, we’d miss the option to check out a matinee movie or enjoy a date night at a new local hot spot.

But if all we had to do was stay home to avoid overwhelming our already overburdened healthcare system, we’d make it work. Honestly, sheltering-in-place is a first-world sacrifice most of us are well-equipped to handle. The following are coping strategies our family has employed to keep our wits about us…

 

Finding Time to Read

Ahh, finally. That big stack of unread books will get some much-needed attention. Now, being a homebody means I can pick up my 700+ page brick of a book, Alexander Hamilton (by Ron Chernow, the inspiration for the Broadway smash) and contemplate finishing it before the Rapture.

Just this past Saturday I came upon the chapter dealing with the Yellow Fever outbreak of 1795. Thank goodness we live in modern times. Back in the day, doctors would use a combination of bad and worse treatments for this plague, including bleeding, enemas, and induced vomiting to name a few. All the things you’d do to a patient to weaken them as they fight a nasty virus.

This episode of our history wasn’t unlike our current situation. At the height of the outbreak, Philadelphians avoided handshakes and used social distancing measures, similar to our 6 feet of personal distance in public. The death toll was incredibly high and children were not spared. Ultimately though, the nation emerged from this outbreak and resumed its commercial stampede.

See, reading can give us hope! Mrs. Cubert had the foresight to visit the local library at the start of all this and packed two reusable grocery bags with kids’ books for our little ones. Whew. Now that we’re suddenly home-schooling, we needed all the novel distractions we could muster. No distraction better than BOOKS.

I’ve come across articles about the “Greats” who used times of plagues and pestilence to conjure some of their best work: Isaac Newton escaped from the city only to forge his theory of gravity, no less. Shakespeare’s retreat led to “King Lear” being penned. Not bad. So far I just have this little post in WordPress to offer, but at least I’m inspired!

 

Going for Walks

Less time commuting means more time for walks. This part of social distancing I LOVE. I do not miss driving at all. The new routine is a 2-mile walk before lunch and a 2-mile walk after work. So far in Minnesota, we haven’t been restricted from leaving our homes for simple errands and essential jobs. My FitBit is grateful…

Now it seems there’s a renaissance of neighborhood walking taking root. It’s like Central Park along our Creekside paths. Everyone is being mindful to give space in passing. I have yet to come across anyone with a cough or sneeze, so it’d appear my neighbors are being mindful of THAT – thankfully.

One thing I started to notice towards the end of “week 1” is how clean the air has become. Not only that, it’s QUIET. Flights were once constant over our hoods. Not anymore. Couple that with the significantly reduced auto traffic and all of a sudden it feels like pedestrians finally won the war. Again, we need to look for silver linings.

Speaking of silver linings, I’ve noticed it’s been easier to get a good night’s sleep. At least, after the initial few nights of anxiety faded, it got easier. Daily walks, reading, avoiding traffic, and reduced work stress all add up to better sleep. It almost makes me wonder if Early Retirement could be a beneficial thing?

 

Learning How to Cook

Fortunately for our family, Mrs. Cubert is an amazing cook. Because she’s the strict vegetarian and most health-conscious member of the household, she’s taken on the brunt of kitchen operations. Lucky for us! New recipes have been a hit and I don’t miss the occasional meat like I thought I would.

We aren’t relying on pantry goods too much either. A good portion of meals still feature fresh produce and we even have fruit lying around. Okay, okay, I’ll admit we did purchase one 25 pound bag of rice from Costco, just in case…

It’s only a matter of time before the weather warms up enough to enjoy firing up the grill, which will further expand our at-home dining options. I don’t know about you, fellow-northerners, but I can’t wait to open up our second dining room out on the deck.

If you’re looking for a simple recipe to make the best out of rice and beans? Saute some garbanzo beans with onion and kale, throw in some smoked paprika, top it on a bed of jasmine rice, and voila! For extra credit, whip up a Thai peanut sauce to make it amaze-balls. That’s the gist of the recipe, but you can find so many ideas for basic staples on the web you’ll never get bored.

Earlier this week I took a walk to the local booze shop to restock the bourbon supply. This is also a good time to hone your mixology skills and host a virtual happy hour with friends. Cheers!

 

The Pitfalls of Being a Homebody

There’s always a downside to this business, right? If you sit home all day, you’re bound to start thinking up a list of improvements and upgrades. You know, stuff and things you don’t NEED? Online shopping is a blessing during these troubled times, but it can also become an unwelcome distraction.

My thoughts lately have drifted to a new iPhone, an espresso maker, and another stack of books I won’t get to finish until 2035. I don’t need any of that stuff, but I tell you what when your neighborhood Starbucks shuts down, you start to crave a real-deal Americano.

But I know that as soon as I buy that fancy $700 machine, by the time it arrives and the novelty has worn off, Starbucks just might reopen. See, that’s $700 I could invest in VTI! 🙂

Aside from online shopping, I’m getting distracted by too many streaming services on TV. We’ve added free trials of Apple+ and HBO Now to our roster, which already includes Disney+, Netflix, and PRIME. Jesus. You’d think we just sit around and watch TV all day, right? We’ll truthfully, we’ve stuck to our routine of 1 to 1.5 hours each evening.

The problem is we’re too picky, too selective with the shows we like (and agree on), so yeah, if it takes a free trial of HBO Now to watch Silicon Valley, I’ll do it, dammit!

Personal hygiene takes a hit too. I got called out yesterday for needing a shower. Being a homebody doesn’t entitle you to be a slob, amiright?? Still not shaving though… Can’t make me do it.

 

About That Early Retirement Thing?

This is not how I’d imagined giving early retirement a “test run”. I’m home every day. I’m sleeping in until (gasp) 6 or 6:30 many days. The neighborhood walks and home cooking are helping me slow down and rein in some stress. It’s all good – for the most part. Throw in the freedom to visit a coffee shop and punch-out posts from different venues and I’d be a happier clam.

I miss seeing my work comrades and experience the just-right level of tension that comes with a corporate job. Although lately, the tension has been much higher than I can stomach. The good news? I’ve been spending the last five and a half years “packing my parachute”. I’m about $40K short of hitting my gap-money stash target, and VTI is taking a pounding in the market these days.

Having a family home all the time is a good thing, and the bonding is wonderful. In a normal circumstance, the kiddos would be at school and Mrs. Cubert would be working more. But you need a little balance. I imagine by the end of week two we’ll wind up in a family cage-match with some time outs, solo walks, and well-timed naps to better accommodate one another.

Regardless, it beats being alone. I’ve been there, done that: having spent two months solo during a summer at college. And that had a lasting effect on me. Turns out I like people after all. Maybe we can all agree that that’s the best outcome of this dreaded pandemic: We learn to appreciate one another, despite different beliefs, backgrounds, and traditions.

Far from being time to close ourselves in – after this passes, we should all work to better understand and explore our complex planet even more. Xenophobia gets us nowhere as a society. After some travel free from viruses and an improved mindset, you can go back to being a homebody again.

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  1. NWA-anon says

    April 14, 2020 at 10:53 am

    Not to mention anything about Minnesotans being really adopters and practitioners of social distancing …since the first Norwegians came here in 1000 AD 😀

    How are you all holding up now that we’re in the 5th week? We’re actually having a great time!

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    • Cubert says

      April 15, 2020 at 5:59 am

      Haha! You got that right! In fact, while visiting Norway several years ago, that was a key observation – there are clusters and big cities, but many Norwegians love to live apart from others.

      We’re holding up alright but missed out on our spring break trip to visit family out west. Hopefully this all ends soon – but enjoying the silver linings as best as we can.

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  2. Frogdancer Jones says

    April 2, 2020 at 1:38 pm

    Enjoyed reading this!
    I have 4 children who are in their 20’s. Three of them are elsewhere for the duration, while the one who’s with me is the quietest one of the lot. Lucky! We both love being at home, so between books, the dogs, veggie gardening, social media, Netflix, gaming (that’s him) and quilting (that’s me)… I can’t see us getting bored.
    In fact, I think I’ve had more contact with people during the past week than I usually do, even when teaching! For example, at 8:30 this morning I’ll be in a Google Hangout with 6 of my workmates. We dance to a song, (last time it was ‘Staying Alive’ ) and then we chat for an hour. It’s lovely.
    Our Prime Minister has indicated that it’ll be around 6 months before restrictions ease. Just putting that out there…

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    • Cubert says

      April 6, 2020 at 7:49 am

      That’s a fine existence, actually! We’ve come to appreciate the slowness, even if the cause of the slow down is insidious…

      We’ve also heard the restrictions could last a good while. Our only solace is IF the seasonality factor tamps down the spread. My main thread of hope is the immense innovation being put forth by our scientific community.

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  3. Caroline at Costa Rica FIRE says

    March 28, 2020 at 2:25 pm

    We’re definitely get back to basics when my 18-year old (stuck at home with us now that her college has gone remote) wanted to go out with us to the bank just to break the monotony. We live in a sparsely populated are so household errands and walks around our condo community are the exciting activities for the immediate term.

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    • Cubert says

      March 30, 2020 at 7:40 am

      I’m finding this new existence more rewarding with each passing day. Of course, I’d rather it be under different circumstances. Like you, our daily walks (even in a highly-populated area) constitute highlights. Thank goodness it’s spring!

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  4. dap says

    March 26, 2020 at 6:26 pm

    Calling this a “test run” on early retirement is brilliant. I’m still working a ton remotely but not commuting into downtown for an extended/open-ended period is really cool. Don’t you find it funny when fellow employees are dressing up at home to be on video conference. Not this coastFI reader. I’m aligned on your shaving, showing rules. Conference calls in t-shirts & shorts is working great in Texas.

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    • Cubert says

      March 27, 2020 at 8:04 am

      Right on! I could get used to this, but it’d be way different if left all alone for most of the day. It is nice when the kids are behaving and I can come upstairs for free hugs.

      Good for you keeping it real on the video conferences! We’ve been banned from showing video in order to save company bandwidth. D’oh!

      Reply
  5. Pete says

    March 26, 2020 at 1:23 pm

    I’m one of those year round grillers and happen to enjoy it. I certainly don’t eat outside in January (usually) but the grilling, or really smoking, of meat works great any time of year.

    BTW, I still haven’t found that location in your photo. I won’t publicly post details but I have started at one end of the possible path and kept my eyes peeled. Given some of your other posts I have a feeling I know about where you are in the city but no, I do not know for sure, nor am I trying to pinpoint your exact location.

    Point is, I have to get further from my house to find your walking paths. 🙂

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    • Cubert says

      March 27, 2020 at 8:02 am

      It’s never a bad time to grill out, right?? I tell you what though – living in a vegetarian home makes that grill feel awfully lonely…

      Keep up the good detective work on your pathfinding, Pete. We’re not far off from the Creek.

      Reply
  6. Steveark says

    March 26, 2020 at 11:14 am

    I laughed out loud at the “We’ll be stuck at home forever line”! It might seem that way. Our outside grill suffered a catastrophic failure at the start of the winter and they do not have grills out for sale yet, that’s our biggest virus problem so far. We may have to go prehistoric and dig a pit or something because we love grilling food. We didn’t buy a big bag of rice but we did buy more staples than usual, I think we’ll be eating out of our stockpile for months even after this blows over. It is nice to read something with such a positive feel to it presented with good humor, thanks!

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    • Cubert says

      March 27, 2020 at 8:01 am

      Haha! Life could be worse, right?? I suppose Steve, you could always order a standard Weber charcoal grill or fetch one at Home Depot. I believe all HW shops remain open even in Lock Down state? But a prehistoric pit in the ground would be neat to read about.

      Glad you enjoyed the post! Stay well.

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  7. Matt in Michigan says

    March 26, 2020 at 10:39 am

    This is really good! We are all together here too, wife trying to work from home with temporary office in our bedroom and me trying to keep our 3 kids on an academic type of schedule, seems to be cutting down on the arguments/fights for now but it’s still early. I’m not sure if they’ll get back to school this year, yikes!! oh, and teachers deserve to be paid WAY THE HELL MORE!!!!

    I hear you on the espresso machine, I’ve been thinking a lot about one myself but so far I’ve been able to talk myself out of it cuz my $25 Aeropress makes pretty damn good cup and doesn’t take up much counter space….Stay healthy!!

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    • Cubert says

      March 27, 2020 at 7:59 am

      Thanks, Matt! This certainly has been an eye-opener for how much our teachers do for our kids, day-in, day-out. Couldn’t agree more about their pay.

      In the meantime, we’ve found excellent Aeropress clips on YouTube to improve our home “brewing” – so no espresso machine needed, for now…

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      • Frogdancer Jones says

        April 2, 2020 at 1:31 pm

        Thanks for the shout-out to teachers! Appreciate it.
        🙂
        In Australia, once the school holidays end after Easter, We’ll be running our classes online.
        We don’t expect the parents to actually home-school.

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        • Cubert says

          April 6, 2020 at 7:47 am

          It’s well-deserved! We’re also firing up the online classes this week. That’ll help a lot, but we still as parents get to play the proctor.

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  8. Penny says

    March 25, 2020 at 3:16 pm

    This is great; thanks for posting! I am a working spouse with 2 kiddos, too. Nervous about the home schooling. Would love to see frugal prek acitivities for our new shelter at home directive, as well as creative and frugal recipes. We’re trying to stick to a daily schedule like our daycare and school had, and we’re rediscovering things like home made play dough and paper airplanes. Cheers!

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    • Cubert says

      March 26, 2020 at 6:37 am

      Hi Penny!
      You’re welcome! I think we’re doing an okay job with the frugal aspects of our new stay-at-home routine. Happily, the kids are spending no more than 1 hour a day on the iPad, and the rest with old fashioned books, pens/pencils, and paper. Our home cooking is going super strong, out of necessity, but we are trying to get take-out once a week at least, partly to support local business, and partly to give ourselves a break from the kitchen!

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